Steps To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

It’s a guy thing. We love systems. Step-by-step guides. Exactly what to say when to get the girls going crazy, or in this case, steps to get your ex girlfriend back. 

A few years back when my girlfriend broke up with me I lost it a little bit. I stayed up night without sleep, searching the internet for what to do to get her back. I don’t know about you, but the pain and the worry that there might already be another guy drove me crazy. 

Alas, back then I couldn’t get help specific to my problem. It seemed that no clear steps to get your ex girlfriend back existed. What I did find though was a ton of GREAT info on how to attract girls. So what I did was take that brilliant information and turn it into a few steps to get your ex girlfriend back. 

Step 1. Agree with the break-up. 

If your girlfriend just dumped you, you might have realized that asking and begging to get back together does not work at all. Why is this? The answer is rooted in the most fundamental law of attraction. 

The number one attraction killer in the world is neediness. 

By being needy, sad and depressed you are just driving her further and further away with every single thing you are saying. 

What you should do instead is agree with the break up. Say things like how you have been thinking about it as well and that you are actually relieved that she said something. 

This will take all that rejection and pain you feel now and turn it on her, because now she is the one who was rejected! 

Step 2. Stay a strong man. 

Now you know that you cannot guilt trip your ex girlfriend into coming back. You should never try and manipulate her by telling her that you will never date again, are thinking of suicide or other weak stuff like this. 

This is not what a true man would ever do. You should make it clear she is not your whole life. You will go on with your life AND be truly happy, even though she isn’t part of it anymore. 

Once again, this is a little reverse psychology and will have some very interesting effects on her. Always remember that the thing that a person cannot get is the thing that they will want the most. 

Step 3. Get up and go! 

You can tell her that you are ready to move on but it won’t have as much impact as when she actually sees it with her own eyes.  

Now we can do some normal things that will work or get a little mean...  

Normal things include starting to go to gym again, going out with friends, taking up an old hobby and generally just starting to live your life again. 

A little more mean things include taking a new date to a place where you know she will be. If you’re not very experienced with girls you might want to skip on this one, but it can be unbelievably effective if used right. Using jealously to get her back has been proven to work very well. 

Step 4. Remind her why she fell for you in the first place. 

In order to finally get her back you need to build attraction again. The same type of attraction you got going when you two first met. 

If you follow the previous three steps to get your ex girlfriend back, you will definitely be well on your way to having her think about you again all day long. Let me just repeat the most important thing to remember about attraction: The number one attraction killer in the world is neediness. 

Now we can use this, flip it around and use the opposite to find the number one attraction booster! What is the opposite of being needy? The answer is not caring about a specific outcome at all, also known as indifference and being aloof. 

If you see her again, ALWAYS be friendly and nice, but make it clear you don’t really care what she does either way. Being unavailable like this will drive her crazy and..that’s right, what is the thing that any person wants most? The thing they cannot have. And in this case, that thing is you.

These are a few great steps to take to get your ex girlfriend back much faster than would otherwise be possible.

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